For parents & families
Frequently Asked Questions
Answers to common questions from parents about painful parent-child contact problems, reunification treatment, court orders, and how to arrange an appointment.
Getting started
Reunification therapy addresses a strained or disrupted parent-child relationship. It requires understanding why contact has deteriorated, the child’s emotional experience, the conduct of adults, and whether the proposed work is appropriate and safe.
Explore this questionNo. A parent may make an inquiry without a court order. Treatment still requires the appropriate consent, participation, and clarification of any existing orders.
Explore this questionDr. Washam has decades of clinical experience, advanced psychoanalytic preparation, and a history of more than 55 high-conflict, court-related family matters since 2020. His work includes reunification and related family treatment.
Meet Dr. WashamYes. Parents may contact the practice directly. You do not need a professional referral or a settled explanation of the problem to make an initial inquiry.
Contact Dr. WashamNo. The practice must consider clinical fit, availability, participation, and the professional role before accepting a case. A text or call does not establish a treatment relationship.
Explore this questionUse the brief contact form to request a response, or call or text the practice. Do not send confidential records or detailed family information in an initial inquiry. The practice will explain what further information is needed.
Explore this questionYour family’s circumstances
It can feel devastating when your child refuses contact. Dr. Washam begins by considering what the child has experienced, how the relationship changed, what the adults have done, and whether safety or outside pressures help explain the situation.
Explore this questionNo. A child’s refusal alone cannot establish parental alienation. Nor can it determine that the rejection is justified. Clinical assessment must consider the child, relationship history, adult conduct, and possible safety concerns.
Explore this questionContact refusal alone cannot answer that question. Amy J. L. Baker's framework considers whether the parent-child relationship has broken down, whether there was a prior positive relationship, whether abuse, neglect, or seriously deficient parenting adequately explains the rejection, whether the favored parent has engaged in alienating behaviors, and whether the child's behavior shows patterns associated with alienation.
Baker’s framework may help organize questions about alienating behavior and possible alternative explanations. It cannot substitute for a careful assessment of the child and family.
Explore this questionSafety concerns can substantially affect whether and how relationship-focused treatment is appropriate. A history or allegation of physical or sexual abuse, neglect, domestic violence, substance misuse, or other frightening behavior should be taken seriously and considered in the context of the particular family.
Reunification therapy does not mean that contact must occur immediately or without adequate safeguards. The clinician considers the child’s experience, the relationship history, current safety, and the purpose of any proposed contact.
Explore this questionYes. The length and circumstances of the separation are important parts of assessing what might be appropriate. An inquiry does not guarantee that a previous relationship can be restored.
Explore this questionSome parents and children have had little opportunity to form a meaningful relationship because of prolonged absence, distance, military service, illness, incarceration, separation during early childhood, or other circumstances. In those situations, the work may involve developing familiarity and trust rather than restoring a previous relationship. A consultation can help clarify whether Dr. Washam's services may fit the circumstances.
Explore this questionYes. Teenagers should be heard and treated respectfully. Their developing independence is considered alongside safety, family history, adult influences, and any relevant court directions.
Explore this questionClarify what participation and consent the proposed service requires. If a legal disagreement affects treatment, the relevant legal question needs to be addressed through the appropriate process.
Explore this questionTreatment and expectations
A brief inquiry addresses suitability and availability. When clinical work begins, the family history, participation, informed consent, financial terms, and initial treatment approach are clarified.
Explore this questionNot always. Separate appointments with parents and a child may be appropriate first. The sequence and any joint meetings depend on the clinical assessment and safety considerations.
Explore this questionNo fixed duration fits every family. Ask what the goals are, how progress will be reviewed, and what would prompt a change in the treatment approach.
Explore this questionNo. Reconciliation, renewed contact, and legal outcomes cannot be guaranteed. The purpose of treatment is to work responsibly toward an appropriate, healthier relationship where possible.
Explore this questionFamily therapy is a broad category. Reunification work has a particular focus on disrupted parent-child contact and may involve additional questions about consent, court orders, and professional roles.
Explore this questionPrepare a brief description of the relationship difficulty and a few questions about participation, professional role, safety, and fees. Wait for secure instructions before submitting detailed records.
Explore this questionCourt involvement and professional roles
Contact the practice to clarify availability and the proposed engagement. The order, treatment authority, role, participants, communication, and payment arrangements need to be understood before proceeding.
Explore this questionA treating role and a custody evaluation are different functions. Ask what role is being accepted and what opinions or reports are within that role.
Explore this questionCourt-involved reunification therapy may have different confidentiality and information-sharing arrangements from conventional individual psychotherapy. Depending on applicable law, informed consent, and the terms of any court order, certain information may be shared with the court or designated professionals, including authorized updates concerning participation or treatment progress.
However, court involvement does not automatically make every therapeutic communication or clinical record subject to disclosure. Before treatment begins, the clinician should explain what information may be shared, with whom, for what purpose, and what confidentiality and privilege protections apply to the particular engagement.
Explore this questionDo not treat therapy or a website inquiry as changing an order. Ask the appropriate legal professional to clarify legal obligations and the process for addressing uncertainty.
Explore this questionYes, professionals can contact the practice to discuss availability, role, and suitability. A proposed referral is not accepted until confirmed by the practice.
Explore this questionFees, location, and contact
Reunification and other court-involved or forensic professional services are billed at $225 per 55 minutes under the published rate schedule. Ask about a retainer and any separately billed work before agreeing to services.
Explore this questionThe practice is self-pay, accepts cash or check only, and does not bill insurance. Rates and responsibilities should be clear before clinical services are scheduled.
Explore this questionThe office is at 2734 Chancellor Drive, Suite 202, Crestview Hills, KY 41017. Appointments are by arrangement.
Explore this questionEducational resources are available to readers elsewhere. Clinical availability depends on the practice’s actual service arrangements and the relevant jurisdiction. Confirm directly rather than assuming interstate or telehealth availability.
Explore this questionYour next step
When your relationship with your child feels uncertain,
you do not have to face every question alone.
If you are struggling with rejection, separation, or a painful change in your relationship with your child, contact the practice with a brief inquiry about whether an appointment would be appropriate.
Northern Kentucky · Voluntary and court-involved inquiries
